Married for four years to wife Erika Lane Frantzve, Trump ally Charlie Kirk was also a devoted father to a daughter and a son.
Charlie Kirk, the conservative commentator and founder of Turning Point USA, was tragically killed on September 10, 2025, during an event at Utah Valley University, CNN confirms. He was just 31 years old. Known for his outspoken political views, Kirk was also a husband and father of two. For his wife, Erika Lane Frantzve Kirk, the sudden loss is not just political news—it is the shattering of a love story they had carefully built over the past seven years.
This article looks at who Charlie Kirk was beyond the stage, his relationship with Erika, their marriage, and the family they created together.
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Who Was Charlie Kirk?
Born in 1993, Charlie Kirk grew into one of the most recognizable young conservative voices in America. At just 18, he co-founded Turning Point USA, a student-focused political organization that grew into a nationwide movement. Kirk became known for his speaking tours, college debates, and signature “Prove Me Wrong” tables—where students could challenge him directly.
But behind the political persona, Kirk was a man deeply invested in faith and family. He often emphasized that his proudest identity was not as a pundit but as a husband and father.
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Who Is Erika Lane Frantzve, Charlie Kirk’s Wife?
Erika Lane Frantzve Kirk is more than “Charlie’s wife.” She has her own accomplishments and identity. Crowned Miss Arizona USA in 2012, she later pursued higher education at Arizona State University, followed by a master’s degree and doctoral studies at Liberty University, a Christian school aligned with her faith.
She played college basketball at Regis University, volunteered extensively, and launched multiple initiatives, including
- Midweek Rise Up, a podcast centered on faith and encouragement
- BIBLE365, a ministry program for daily scripture readings
- PROCLAIM, a faith-based apparel brand
Erika also appeared regularly alongside Charlie at Turning Point events, combining their shared passion for faith, politics, and service.
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Charlie Kirk and Erika Lane Frantzve’s Love Story
Their relationship began in 2018, when they met for dinner. According to Charlie, he knew almost immediately that Erika was “the one.” Their connection grew quickly, grounded in shared values and faith.
By December 2020, Charlie proposed. Erika posted a photo of him down on one knee, captioning it with joy and gratitude.
On May 8, 2021, they exchanged vows in Scottsdale, Arizona. The wedding was intentionally intimate, with no bridesmaids or groomsmen, just their closest family. Erika later reflected that the simplicity made the day even more meaningful.
Over the next four years, their marriage was a blend of public appearances and private devotion. They traveled together for Turning Point tours, celebrated milestones as a couple, and later embraced parenthood.
In July 2025, he posted a loved-up image of himself and his wife and captioned it, “Get married, have kids, and stop partying into oblivion. Leave a legacy, be courageous. Happy Sunday. God Bless all the parents out there.“
Charlie and Erika’s Wedding and Anniversaries
Charlie Kirk and Erika Lane Frantzve were married on May 8, 2021, in Scottsdale, Arizona. Their ceremony reflected their personalities—intimate, faith-driven, and centered on the values they shared. There were no bridesmaids or groomsmen, just close family standing by as the couple exchanged vows.
On their third anniversary, Erika looked back on that day while sharing a photo of her wedding dress. She opened up about the simplicity of their celebration and offered advice to newly engaged brides:
“…three years ago today I said ‘yes to the dress’ with my Mama, my best friend, by my side. Our wedding was very intimate…no bridesmaids, no groomsman. If you’re newly engaged and feeling the rush and pressure of preparing for the ‘big day’—slow down. It’s one day; yes it marks a new chapter of life. Yes, it symbolizes a special covenant between you, your husband and the Lord. But remember it’s the days afterward that matter more.”
Her reflection was candid and unfiltered. She encouraged brides not to be consumed by flowers, linens, or the pressure of pleasing others, but instead to focus on preparing their hearts for marriage. For her, the wedding was only the beginning; the true weight of the promise came in the life that followed.
By their fourth anniversary in May 2025, Erika shared a wedding album in slideshow style, accompanied by words that read like a love letter to Charlie:
“Four sacred years. My best friend, my warrior, my calm in every storm. We entered this covenant with open hearts, not knowing all that would come—but knowing Who we were anchored in. We’ve laughed in the highs, we’ve wept in the lows, and we’ve held the miracle of life in our arms twice. You live the Gospel—not just in word, but in the way you love, lead, and serve. Through you, I’ve learned what it truly means to grow…as a wife, as a mother, and as a woman called to walk this life beside you. It’s you and me—with God always at the center. I will always be grateful. I will always be yours. Eternity is ours @charliekirk1776; I love you baby.”
Charlie’s simple but heartfelt reply said it all: “You are the best wife and mom. I’m grateful for you everyday. ❤”
How Many Children Do Charlie Kirk and Erika Have?
The couple shared two children:
Though public about their marriage, Charlie protected his children’s privacy. He and Erika never revealed their names or showed their faces online. In a June 2025 video, he explained, “We have a girl and a boy and it’s no one’s business what their names are or their faces.”
On May 15, 2025, they marked their son’s first birthday. Charlie wrote:
“Yesterday we celebrated our son’s 1st birthday! He has brought an infinite amount of joy and laughter into our lives. Being a parent is an incredible gift, made far better because I get to do it alongside @mrserikakirk. ‘Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.’ Proverbs 22:6.”
Just weeks later, Erika and Charlie also celebrated their daughter’s third birthday—memories that now stand among the last they made together as a family.
What Happened to Charlie Kirk?
On September 10, 2025, Charlie Kirk was speaking at Utah Valley University as part of his American Comeback Tour. Sitting at his “Prove Me Wrong” table, he was answering a question about gun violence when a single shot struck him in the neck. He died shortly after, according to NPR.
The incident, which was caught on video and shared widely online, was confirmed by President Donald Trump on Truth Social. Authorities later announced they had taken a person of interest into custody, describing the killing as a targeted “political assassination.”
The Lasting Promise of Family
For Erika, the loss of her husband is unimaginable. Their love story—meeting by chance, building a marriage grounded in faith, and raising two young children—was meant to last decades, not years. Now she faces the task of preserving his memory for their children and continuing the life they built together.
Charlie often spoke about the importance of family, telling supporters that his greatest legacy was not Turning Point USA or his debates on stage, but the home he created with Erika. That is where his lasting promise lies.
Conclusion
Charlie Kirk’s life was cut short at 31, but the love story he shared with Erika and the family they built will endure. Once spoken in private, their wedding vows now stand as a public reminder of the power of faith, love, and commitment even in the face of tragedy.
For Erika, their children, and those who admired them, it’s clear: beyond politics, Charlie Kirk will be remembered as a husband and father first.
