30 Old-School and Modern South African Wedding Songs Of All Time: Lyrics, MP3 Download, Videos, Etc

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    A wedding is a tapestry of emotions, a celebration where love, joy, and unity intertwine to create an unforgettable experience. One of the pivotal elements that elevate the ambiance and leave an indelible mark on the hearts of those in attendance is music.

    As couples embark on the journey of planning their special day, selecting the perfect soundtrack becomes a significant aspect of curating an atmosphere that resonates with the essence of their love story.

    In South Africa, a diverse and culturally rich nation, the wedding playlist is a kaleidoscope of melodies that traverse time, blending old classics with contemporary beats.

    In this article, JanaTribe will delve into the best 30 South African wedding songs, bridging the gap between the timeless tunes of yesteryear and the vibrant beats of the present.

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    The Essence of Entertaining Through Music:

    At the heart of every marriage celebration lies the desire to create an experience that not only unites two souls but also captivates and entertains those who gather to bear witness.

    Music, as a universal language, plays a pivotal role in setting the tone and enhancing the overall atmosphere of the wedding festivities. It has the power to evoke nostalgia, tug at heartstrings, and infuse the air with infectious joy.

    Whether it’s the soul-stirring tunes that accompany the bride’s entrance or the lively beats that beckon guests to the dance floor, the music weaves itself into the very fabric of the celebration, creating moments that linger in the memory.

    A father and a daughter moment at a wedding ceremony. Image Source: Minted

    20 Old Classic SA Wedding Songs

    In the ever-evolving landscape of wedding music, there’s a certain timeless allure to the classics that have withstood the test of time. Old South African wedding songs, rich in cultural significance and nostalgic resonance, continue to find a place of honor in contemporary celebrations.

    These melodies often passed down through generations, carry a sense of tradition and authenticity that adds a layer of depth to the wedding experience.

    From the soulful strains of Miriam Makeba’s “Pata Pata” to the poignant ballads of Brenda Fassie’s “Vulindlela,” these vintage tunes still find their way into the playlists of modern weddings, seamlessly blending the old with the new. Here are 20 old South African wedding songs to play at your wedding.

    1. “Pata Pata” by Miriam Makeba

    ‘Pata Pata’ literally means ‘touch touch’ in Xhosa and was released by Miriam Makeba, who was famously known as ‘Mama Africa’.

    She was a South African singer and songwriter. She was a United Nations goodwill ambassador who worked on hunger, HIV, and domestic violence, as well as a civil rights activist. Makeba was among the first African musicians to receive worldwide recognition, winning a Grammy in 1965 and performing from Johannesburg to New York and Lagos to London. She was both a friend and a mentor to Kidjo.

    As the beat of “Pata Pata” reverberates through the air, it’s impossible not to be transported to a time when Makeba’s enchanting voice captivated audiences worldwide. This classic, with its infectious rhythm and celebratory spirit, has become a staple at South African weddings. The lively, danceable tune infuses the gathering with undeniable energy, setting the stage for joyous celebrations.

    This defiantly joyful song was released more than 50 years ago and gained international traction.

    During the high rise in the COVID-19 pandemic, which claimed the lives of millions, UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador and Grammy award-winning musician Angélique Kidjo remade the tune to spread information and hope in a time of coronavirus.

    The modified version sung by Kidjo includes lines such as: It’s a time to “Sit it out!” This is ‘no-pata-pata… Stay at home and wait it out …..We need to keep our hands clean ….So ‘no-pata pata’…Don’t touch your face, keep your distance, please”.

    You can download Pata Pata by Miriam Makeba here.

    2. “Vulindlela” by Brenda Fassie

    Brenda Nokuzola Fassie was one of the South African musical legends. She was professionally an Afropop singer, songwriter, dancer, and activist.

    Affectionately called MaBrrr by her fans, she was sometimes described as the “Queen of African Pop”, the “Madonna of The Townships” or simply as The Black Madonna.

    Brenda Fassie, the queen of South African pop, left an indelible mark on the music landscape with her soul-stirring ballad “Vulindlela.” The song, expressing the joy of overcoming obstacles, has found its way into modern weddings, becoming a symbolic anthem of triumph and celebration.

    The song, released in 1997, has a joyful and upbeat tone, and it became a hit not only in South Africa but also internationally.

    According to the meanings of the song chanced on by a Quora user, the song “Vulindlela” by Brenda Fassie is sung in Xhosa, and it tells the story of a woman who is advising her partner to hurry up and come to her. She expresses her longing for her partner and urges them to make haste to be together.

    Part of the lyrics goes:

    Vul’indlela wemamgobhozi (Open the gates, Miss Gossip)
    He unyana wam (My baby boy)
    Helele uyashada namhlanje (Is getting married today)
    Vul’indlela wela ma ngiyabuza (Open the gates please)
    Msuba nomona (Don’t be jealous)
    Unyana wami uthathile (My son has had a good catch)
    Bengingazi ngiyombon’umakoti (I never thought I’d see a daughter in law)
    Unyana wam eh ujongile this time (My son has been accepted (woman said yes))
    Makgadi fele usenzo s’cede (Help us finish the ceremony (you are welcome))
    Uzemshadweni ngiyashadisa namhlanje (Come to the wedding, I’m taking
    my son to the altar today)
    Bebesithi unyana wam lisoka (People said my son is (someone who
    doesn’t get women))
    Bebesithi angeke ashade vul’indlela (People said he would never get
    married but open the gates)

    Download the MP3 of this song from Timheven.

    3. “Ntyilo Ntyilo” by Miriam Makeba

    Miriam Makeba makes a second appearance on our list, this time with the timeless and enchanting “Ntyilo Ntyilo.” This jazzy love song, originally recorded in the 1950s, remains a romantic choice, adding a touch of sophistication to weddings that appreciate the charm of the past.

    The lyrics of the song go like this:

    Ndav’ilizwi kwelotyholo (Wowu, wowu)
    Ndakhangela ndasondela (Wowu, wowu)
    Lalisitsho lisithi thili, thili, thili
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo

    Ndav’ilizwi kwelatyholo (Wowu, wowu)
    Ndakhangela ndasondela (Wowu, wowu)
    Lalisitsho lisithi thili, thili, thili
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo

    Wayembathe iingubo ezimhlophe (Wowu, wowu)
    Wayembathe neengubo ezibomvu (Wowu, wowu)
    Lalisitsho lisithi thili, thili, thili
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo

    Wayembathe iingubo ezimhlophe (Wowu, wowu)
    Wayembathe neengubo ezibomvu (Wowu, wowu)
    Lalisitsho lisithi thili, thili, thili
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo
    Ntyilo ntyilo imandi lontsholo

    4. “Jabulani” by Sipho Mabuse

    PJ Powers is a South African singer and performer. She became a household name in southern Africa after the widespread success of the song “Jabulani.”

    Released in 1991, Jabulani is a Zulu-originated word that means “‘Be happy’ or ‘Rejoice'”.

    When she played at the Jabulani Amphitheatre in 1983, she was hailed by the crowd with the name “Thandeka”.

    This powerful masterpiece, which has received massive airplay, is an embodiment of pure celebration.

    With its vibrant melody and lyrics exuding happiness, this timeless track has a magnetic quality that draws people to the dance floor, making it a cherished choice for wedding playlists.

    5. “Wedding Day” by Brenda Fassie

    There would be no list of Brenda Fassie’s “Wedding Day” without it. Talk about celebrating love, throwing a party for two married souls, and praising your daughter for marrying the man of her dreams. We can all agree that Brenda was and remains the queen of wedding songs. “Wedding Day” is the perfect song for brides to dance to with their parents and families.

    6. “Sunday Blues” by Langa Mavuso

    Sunday Blues by Langa Mavuso is a song about wanting to share your love with the person who stole your heart. It may not be a well-known wedding song, but it is one of the most heartfelt South African songs about love and wanting your lover by your side. This is for the sentimental ones who want to cry their eyes out on that special day with the person they love.

    7. “Over The Moon” by Donald

    R&B singer and songwriter Donald boarded a “Train Of Love” in 2012, and it drove him home. The album was popular for its love theme and dance genre. The song “Over the Moon” is everything a perfect wedding song should be. It may not be the best choice to walk down the aisle, but it is the song for moments with the one you love.

    8. “Thandolwethu” by Berita

    Gugulethu Khumalo, best known by her stage name Berita, is a South African-Zimbabwean-born singer, songwriter, and music producer. Her music is a combination of soul music containing elements from Afro-Jazz, contemporary pop influences, and South African dance music.

    Hailing from the Eastern Cape region of South Africa, she is known for her highly sophisticated, spacious collection supported by heartfelt lyrics and soulful vocals.

    Transitioning from the classics to the contemporary, Berita’s “Thandolwethu” beautifully captures the essence of love and commitment. Released in 2013, this soulful ballad has quickly become a modern favorite at weddings, with its heartfelt lyrics resonating with couples and guests alike.

    Aside from “I Do” she has other projects like her album “Conquering Spirit” which is the award-winning Afro-Pop debut by the artist. “Conquering Spirit” won the coveted “Best African Pop Album” gong at the 2013 (South African) Metro FM Awards.

    Part of the lyrics of the song go like this:

    Ndandinomfana omuhle
    Igama lakhe uThandowlethu
    Hhe! Ndimthanda endithanda
    Sasingohlulwa nazindudumo

    Wayophul’intliziyo yam
    Ndingamcingelanga
    Weyophul’intliziyo yam
    Ndingamlindelanga

    Whee Thandolwethu
    Thandolwethu
    Ndakwenzani na Thandolwethu
    Ndakwenzani na Thandolwethu

    Whee ndikuxelele
    Bendicinga ukuba ndizohlala nawe
    Bom bam bonke
    Bendingazi
    Bendicinga ukuba ungowami
    Kanti ungowethu sonke…

    9. “Into Yam” by Sun-El Musician ft. Ami Faku

    Sun-El Musician (born Sanele Sithole) is a South African-based producer (from the Kwazulu Natal Highlands) who, with humility and grace, has steadily carved out a reputation for not only having a magic touch with his unmistakable brand of Afro-House and electronic fusion.

    Sun-El Musician’s collaboration with Ami Faku, “Into Yam,” brings a contemporary Afro-house vibe to the wedding scene. The infectious rhythm and soulful vocals make it a hit on dance floors, illustrating how South African music continues to evolve while maintaining its cultural roots.

    10. “Nomakanjani” by Brenda Fassie

    Brenda Fassie remains one of the most iconic singers of all time in South Africa. Brenda was a different breed, and she knew it. She loved love, and she also loved to party. If you’ve wondered why her love songs were also party jams, there’s your answer. Brenda had some of the best hits between the 1960s and the 2000s. Her heart lives on.

    11. “Udakwa Njalo” by Mafikizolo

    It is encouraging to see how far Mafikizolo has progressed in the music industry when considering their path. When they were a trio, they released “Kwela,” one of their most exquisite albums, back in 2005. The love song “Udakwa Njalo” was included on the CD. We cannot say enough how ideal the music is for bridal showers. Everyone does indeed adore it.

    12. “Emlanjeni” by Mafikizolo

    In South Africa, Mafikizolo has been one of the most talked-about vocal ensembles ever. When they initially appeared on the scene, they formed the ideal trio. In 2015, they also released the highly regarded album “Kwela.” Among the memorable songs on it was “Emlanjeni.” The song is undoubtedly the ideal wedding groove; there is no denying it. Perhaps this is the perfect jam for a slow dance.

    13. “Nguwe” by Afrotraction ft. Bongi & Collin

    Afrotraction’s “Nguwe” is a testament to the enduring power of love. Featuring Bongi & Collin, this soulful ballad explores the depths of emotion, making it a popular choice for couples seeking a heartfelt soundtrack for their wedding day.

    14. “Ndikuthandile” by Vusi Nova

    One thing Vusi Nova will always be associated with is having one of the best singing vocals in the history of South African music. He has serenaded fans with that voice by sprinkling it on love songs and bringing them home. The song “Ndikuthandile” is one of the tracks on his 2016 album “Naninina.” We can assure you that it is the perfect song for your first dance.

    15. “Thandiwe” by Vusi Nova

    When Vusi Nova sings, it feels as if he calls to memory some of the best events in his life or some of the most painful. However, he does it. The truth is, he channels the right emotions into the song. If you love to feel emotional on your wedding day, then this is the perfect song for you. Since its release in 2015, “Thandiwe” has been a top choice for weddings.

    16. “Malaika” by Sebaka Nyana

    Malaika conquered the world with their lovely song years ago. With some of the most recognizable successes in our music’s history, the well-known trio’s self-titled album “Malaika,” which debuted in 2003, dominated the airwaves. It also included the lovely song “Sebaka Nyana,” which has grown to be a favorite of most people over time. It will not take long to light up your party.

    17. “Weekend Special” by Brenda & The Big Dudes

    Here’s a thought for your wedding reception. We all know the best songs for the dancefloor are nostalgic jams. If you want your parents and older relatives to hit the dance floor and join the boogie, this is the song for you. Brenda Fassie & The Big Dudes gave South Africa an ever-living jam. It is the perfect song for wedding parties.

    18. “Mhla’ Uphel’ Amandla” by Malaika

    There is a reason why the Malaika trio is so iconic. They did not only make hits; they made music that we could all relate to. They dominated dancefloors with hits from their 2003 album, “Malaika,” and have continued to do so through the years. The song “Mhla’ Uphel’ Amandla” remains one of their most iconic hits. You don’t have to worry about getting your guests to dance; this will do the magic.

    19. “Never Change My Mind” by Malaika

    Sometimes, all we need is a song that says all of the emotions we are feeling without making us cry. If you want to assure the one you love of your undying love and want to choose them again and again, this is the perfect song for you. Malaika’s “Never Change My Mind” is from the 2007 album “Sekunjalo.” The trio did a fantastic job on the party jam.

    20. “Ndihamba Nawe” by Mafikizolo

    Mafikizolo was one of the most talked-about musical acts in 2005, following the release of their album “Kwela.” However, they came back stronger in 2007 with the album “Sibongile.” The album contained the infectious jam “Ndihamba Nawe,” which would become one of the most iconic wedding party jams. The song is all about love and celebrating it, and it also feels like home. You should play it.

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    Best Modern South African Wedding Songs

    1. “I Do” by LaSauce ft. Amanda Black

    Sindisiwe Mabogo is a South African singer-songwriter known professionally under the alias LaSauce. She gained recognition after the release of “Phumelela” by Miss Pru DJ.

    She has a powerful wedding-themed song titled “I Do” which has been played at almost all marriage ceremonies in South Africa.

    Released in 2017, the pop song featured Amanda Benedicta Antony, known professionally as Amanda Black. She is also an SA singer and a former contestant on Idols South Africa season 11.

    Parts of the lyrics of the song, per Genius, go like this:

    Are we good?

    K’dala ndilindile
    To say how much I love you
    I got this message for you
    Ndithi “I do Ng’yavuma I”

    K’dala Ndilindile
    Nhliziyo yami yonkhe
    I got this message for you
    Ndithi ” I do Ng’yavuma I”

    2. AKA – Caiphus Song

    “Caiphus Song” by AKA is a captivating blend of hip-hop and African rhythms, showcasing the artist’s versatility and creativity. Released in 2017, the song has amassed over 6.5 million views on YouTube, a testament to its popularity. The music video, directed by Alessio Bettocchi and produced by Don Design, is a visual treat that complements the song’s vibrant energy.

    AKA’s lyrical prowess shines through in this track, making it a standout piece in his discography. The song is part of Sony Music Entertainment Africa’s collection, under exclusive license from Vth Season.

    3. “Sondela” by Tresor ft. Msaki

    Tresor and Msaki’s collaboration, “Sondela,” seamlessly blends Afro-pop with heartfelt lyrics, creating a romantic anthem that has found its place in contemporary wedding playlists. The song’s universal themes of love and togetherness resonate with couples embarking on a new chapter.

    4. “Something Soweto” by Akulaleki ft. DJ Maphorisa, Kabza De Small, Sha Sha, and Something Soweto

    “Something Soweto” is a collaboration that brings together some of the biggest names in South African music, including DJ Maphorisa, Kabza De Small, Sha Sha, and Something Soweto. The result is an upbeat and energetic track that adds a contemporary flair to wedding playlists, ensuring guests are on their feet and celebrating.

    5. “Jerusalema” by Master KG ft. Nomcebo Zikode

    No South African wedding playlist would be complete without the global phenomenon “Jerusalema” by Master KG and Nomcebo Zikode. The infectious beat and danceable rhythm turned this track into a dance challenge sensation, making it a must-have for lively wedding celebrations.

    Conclusion

    The well-chosen blend of traditional and modern music creates a harmonic soundtrack that reflects the distinct beat of every love tale, creating a vibrant tapestry of South African weddings.

    The enduring power of love, expressed via the universal language of music, is exemplified by these 30 songs, which range from catchy beats to nostalgic classics.

    The wedding music selection turns into a symphony of joy that combines current and traditional elements to create enduring memories. These songs, with their vast cultural diversity and poignant melodies, capture the essence of love, demonstrating that music is a passionate representation of ecstatic union at South African weddings.